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No — it is physically impossible to see the Apollo flags with any telescope based on Earth. The flags are roughly 1.5 metres wide. At the Moon's average distance of 384,400 km, resolving an object that small at visible wavelengths requires an aperture of approximately 75 metres. No telescope on Earth is that large (the biggest optical telescope mirrors are about 10 metres). Even Earth's most powerful telescopes can only resolve lunar features of about 50–80 metres across under ideal conditions. The flag is invisible from Earth — not because it fell down or was buried, but because physics makes it unresolvable regardless of magnification.
However: NASA's Lunar Reconnaissance Orbiter (LRO), flying 50 km above the lunar surface, has photographed all six Apollo landing sites and confirmed the flags are still standing — all except Apollo 11's, which was blown over by the ascent engine exhaust when the crew left. The shadows of the flag poles are visible in LRO images.